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School run cycling mum assaulted by driver in front of her children

“The man assaulted me after telling my 2 children to go to school as their mom was going to get beat up,” says Nikki Dee

A West Midlands woman who accompanies her children to school by bike has spoken on social media of the moment she was assaulted in front of them by a driver who was apparently frustrated that he had been unable to overtake them in his car.

Posting to X, the platform formerly known as Twitter, Nikki Dee copied in Adam Tranter, the West Midlands Active Travel Commissioner, as she wrote: “I got physically assaulted today whilst cycling to school with my 2 young children.

“The man assaulted me after telling my 2 children to go to school as his mom was going to get beat up.

“My kids are 8 and 9 and this was on the same road as the primary school,” she continued.

She added that the journey to school is around a mile in distance, and that the driver “wanted to get past even though there were parked cars everywhere ,so we had to ride further out and no opportunity for an overtake.

“Obviously driver is getting triggered by this and attacks me, tries to damage the bike.”

In reply, Tranter said: “Very sorry to hear this. Please let me know if I can be or any further assistance. Awful behaviour out there on our roads.”

She also received support from road safety campaigner Cycling Mikey, who offered his assistance.

We contacted Nikki, who said that she was unable to share the footage for now since she had sent it to West Midlands Police.

“I appreciate the work that you do to highlight what cyclists deal with because they are treated as second class citizens for riding a bike, and I watch your Near Miss of the Day,” she told us.

She also said that one of her sons had recently been the victim of a hit-and-run while riding home from school.

“It’s very sad that two children aren’t able to ride to school which is less than a mile without being involved in a hit and run, and now seeing their mother be assaulted just because someone thinks they have more rights than anyone because they’re in a car,” she added.

Simon joined road.cc as news editor in 2009 and is now the site’s community editor, acting as a link between the team producing the content and our readers. A law and languages graduate, published translator and former retail analyst, he has reported on issues as diverse as cycling-related court cases, anti-doping investigations, the latest developments in the bike industry and the sport’s biggest races. Now back in London full-time after 15 years living in Oxford and Cambridge, he loves cycling along the Thames but misses having his former riding buddy, Elodie the miniature schnauzer, in the basket in front of him.

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Benthic | 6 months ago
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'Momentary lapse in concentration'

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SL1D3R | 7 months ago
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I'd love them to throw the book at him. I'm sure the moment of weakness/madness defense will be wheeled out, hardship etc. He's very remorful for what happened and is otherwise a pillar of the community and good character yada yada yada....
He will get a driving course and 200 quid fine. Even though he was out of the car and it's technically just a person assaulting another person.

What always makes me wonder when stuff like this happens. If he felt held up driving behind the bike and so angry he felt he needed to get out and assault the cyclist... Was he really in a rush? Or was he just out to assault a woman and didn't care how it happened? If it was just about time once you could get on your way you would wouldn't you? You wouldn't then find the time to stop otherwise your need to get past point is completely null and void. It's just 3 counts of irrational madness at this point.
1. Feeling held up when you have no where to be.
2. Spending time pulling over to get out
3. actually assaulting a female cyclist with your hands to remonstrate how in a rush you are....

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OldRidgeback | 7 months ago
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I really hope the police deal with this case properly. Threatening behaviour is a criminal offence. If she has footage of this as well as witnesses, she will have a very strong case. If I were her legal advisor, I'd be pushing for some sort of banning order in this instance to make sure that the thug is kept away from her in future. If I were her, I wouldn't be accepting of some kind of 'amicable' resolution and would expect nelaties for his criminal behaviour.

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Secret_squirrel replied to OldRidgeback | 7 months ago
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It was a physical assault.  Not just threatening behaviour...

Hopefully book thrown at him.

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OldRidgeback replied to Secret_squirrel | 7 months ago
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The police tend to be more pro-active in asault cases, particularly in instances like this. Let's hope the perp gets a suitable sentence. You'd have thought some time in prison would be likely but we'll see.

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wtjs replied to OldRidgeback | 7 months ago
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You'd have thought some time in prison would be likely but we'll see

This is only assault of a cyclist who are universally assumed to have brought it on themselves by being in the way on the road. I hope we do hear about the outcome, but my guess is 'words of advice and a course'

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eburtthebike | 7 months ago
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Is this a reflection of the government's Plan for Drivers?  Is it my imagination but has this emboldened drivers, and this endorsement of their right to the road to the exclusion of everyone else made them even more aggressive?

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neilmck | 7 months ago
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I live in France and cycle to work throughout the Parisian region. Parisian drivers are considered the worst in France, however I have no problems on my 50km a day commute riding in and out of the centre of Paris. When I come back to the UK I am shocked at how agressive and thoughtless English drivers are. I find it unbelieve to see grown men having to cycle on the pavement because they are too terrified to cycle on the road! There really is a big, unnatural problem with car drivers in the UK.

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BIRMINGHAMisaDUMP replied to neilmck | 7 months ago
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I also cycle in Paris. The other day I was cycling home from school with my daughter and I stopped at a crossing to let some children cross and the driver behind me hooted.  I was genuinely shocked - as this has never happened to me before in Paris. I regularly come to London for work and when in London I cycle. I expect to get shouted at / aggressive pass / hooted at every day in London. 
 

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eburtthebike replied to BIRMINGHAMisaDUMP | 7 months ago
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Cycling through France quite a few years ago, from south to north on the west coast, it was noticeable that there were more such incidents the farther north you got, and quite frequently, those cars had Brit plates.

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kil0ran | 7 months ago
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I live in a very small town with a single primary school. Once a week I'd take my 8yo to school on a tagalong, it was less than a mile. Got cut up and abused by a Mum of a kid IN HIS CLASS because I was riding centrally between parked cars. This was a kid he played with at break time and had even been round his house with a mutual friend. The language would have curled the toes of a miner. Audi Qx driver of course.

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Offwood replied to kil0ran | 7 months ago
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What is it about the people who drive those cars…? They all seem to be nut bags.

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andystow replied to Offwood | 7 months ago
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Well, kil0ran literally doubled the time her car journey took, from two minutes, to four!

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kil0ran replied to andystow | 7 months ago
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Literally! She lives two streets away from us, about 800yds.

When I asked her she said she drives because it's not safe to walk due to the narrow pavements and big vehicles. This was 6 years ago before the arrival of the yank trucks.

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kil0ran replied to Offwood | 7 months ago
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Inferiority complex and buyer's remorse. They bought an Audi for the badge without realising they could get a better specced cheaper version of the same car with a Skoda or VW badge, and then realise what they should have bought was a BMW "Ultimate Driving Machine".

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Daclu Trelub replied to Offwood | 6 months ago
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The fastest bastards on the backroads around here are the school-run Mums. Effing dangerous, some of them.

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wycombewheeler replied to kil0ran | 7 months ago
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kil0ran wrote:

The language would have curled the toes of a miner.

but what about a minor?

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kil0ran replied to wycombewheeler | 7 months ago
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These days probably not, but her lad was only 8.

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mctrials23 | 7 months ago
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Hopefully the utter scumbag who did this will find themselves banned from driving for a while and if we're really lucky they will get some jail time. 

Hope he feels like a big man beating up a women and scaring children. 

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wtjs replied to mctrials23 | 7 months ago
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Hopefully the utter scumbag who did this will find themselves banned from driving for a while and if we're really lucky they will get some jail time

No he won't!

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eburtthebike replied to mctrials23 | 7 months ago
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mctrials23 wrote:

Hopefully the utter scumbag who did this will find themselves banned from driving for a while and if we're really lucky they will get some jail time.

Unlikely.  The prisons are full, judges are being told not to send any more people to prison and to delay sentencing hearings.  Another tory success story.  And it was only a cyclist.

Did anyone see the car crash interview with Mark Harper, (https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1rl_1HyCFmg starts at 38:43 about transport) on the Laura Keunsberg show but it wasn't her, where she points out that the transport announcements at the party conference suddenly disappeared from the web and a lot of the new schemes had not only been announced years ago, but some of them already existed.  Harper waffled and prevaricated and tried to justify making announcements that weren't true, but he was as convincing as a, well, any other tory.

As one wit has already pointed out, if the tories succeed in banning smoking, and hence fag packets, how will they produce new policies?

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jaymack | 7 months ago
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What shocks me is that situations such as this are no longer a surprise. Although 'Mom' rather than Mum does, but I'm a pedant...

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argiebarge replied to jaymack | 7 months ago
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Mom isnt that unusual in the midlands, similar to Mam in quite a few northern areas. But yeh, terrible for events like this to be happening.

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jaymack replied to argiebarge | 7 months ago
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I sit behind my keyboard admonished and educated in equal measure; thank you.

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