I live in rural Warwickshire, just outside of Stratford-upon-Avon, and it is a beautiful part of the world. From my window I have views over the Cotswolds, we have the world-famous Royal Shakespeare Company bringing the best actors in the world to perform, and this area is repeatedly voted as one of the best places to live. 

The cycling here is also amazing. You can find miles of quiet country roads, there’s plenty of mountain biking trails around, and there’s even a disused railway nearby where hundreds of children learn to ride every week. 

As I was driving back to my house the other day, I was around half a mile from home and found the road was blocked by a couple of police cars. It emerged that a cyclist had been killed after a “collision with another vehicle”. This shook me, because this isn’t just near my house, this isn’t just somewhere that I occasionally pass on my bike – this is on my normal route, I include this section of road on at least 50% of my rides. I have been riding for 20 years, I know there are awful drivers around, but to see it so close to home feels different. I also drive this section of road at least twice every single day.

I don’t know the name of the person who was killed, and I don’t know the circumstances around it. What I do know is that this is not a particularly dangerous piece of road. There are some wide corners, but they’re not blind, and there aren’t so many of them that a driver might become impatient having waited for a long time to pass a slower-moving vehicle. There are always two sides to a story, but with 70%–80% of cyclists’ deaths finding poor driving as the cause according to Cycling UK, the conditions and layout would strongly suggest this will also be the case here. 

Regardless of circumstances and fault, the overwhelming feeling I have is of sadness and loss – somebody lost their life while out on their bike. There is never a reasonable explanation for this, it’s always a tragedy. 

However, when I look at the local Facebook group, you wouldn’t think somebody had died, because on posts about it people are instead focused on the person being a cyclist, so it was probably their fault. 

Luke Chapman thought it appropriate to say, “I do feel the need to point out that whilst the laws now favour cyclists, they clearly don’t protect them from 2 tonnes of steel. I don’t know what happened but I know unfortunately it was fatal.

“Don’t pick fights you cant win, might is always right.

“It doesnt matter as a cyclist if you were right or wrong if youre dead.”

It is genuinely shocking that somebody who uses the same roads as my children and me thinks that going out on your bike is somehow “picking a fight” with a car, or that it’s always the responsibility of the smaller vehicle to just get out the way. It’s their fault if they get killed. 

Chris Dunn said, “Unfortunately in my experience cyclists could do more to read the road better and avoid putting themselves in dangerous situations rather than expecting everyone else to look out for them.”

It looks like Chris is a bus driver, so his job is literally to look out for cyclists and other road users. Again, somebody who drives on the same roads as me in some of the largest vehicles you will regularly encounter, believes that all cyclists’ deaths are their own fault for putting themselves in a situation where somebody else might kill them. 

Niki Swingler decided that a post about somebody losing a family member on the roads was an appropriate place to say, “I thought that they have to stop at a red light too but who knows because I saw one cycle through one on Evesham Road yesterday.”

Again, somebody who is likely to have overtaken me on my bike appears to think that the death of somebody isn’t deserving of a show of sadness. Instead, because they were on a bike when they were killed, the most important point is to tell the world they saw a different person on a bike cycle through a red light. 

When I look at the same forum, Warwickshire police posted at almost exactly the same time, “We’re currently with Officialwmas (WMAS) responding to a serious collision between a car and a pedestrian on the Warwick Road near the Welcombe Hotel.”

Guess how many people in my community thought it pertinent to blame the pedestrian for holding up the car [driver], or mention how many pedestrians they saw crossing the road outside of zebra crossings? I don’t even need to tell you, you already know. 

It shows how publications like the Daily Mail, Daily Express, and the Telegraph have done their job. Cyclists are dehumanised, and the people in my community demonstrate this better than any study or focus group ever could. If you’re killed on a bike, you deserve it.

Looking at the comments section, there are 19 direct comments at the time of writing. 15 of them are the standard bingo card comments about cyclists’ behaviour with no sympathy for somebody being killed. It’s sickening. 

This is a lovely area to live, and you don’t often meet people who are clearly this awful. Still, it’s genuinely depressing to realise that I share the road with even one person who may hold these views.