Did I miss the memo? (grumpy cyclist rant)

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    Super Domestique

    Today I encountered so many grumpy, miserable or rude cyclists.

    Did I miss the memo about it being unfriendly Friday or something!

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  • #672899
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    CarbonBreaker

    I must’ve wish a “good
    I must’ve wish a “good morning” to 60plus people yesterday on the long ride I did here in Singapore, all with a nice “good morning” in response… I do try to limit it to one “hello” to groups of cyclists though otherwise it gets silly!

    Interestingly here, as there is so little space to ride, people tend to get on well, but there are the usual idiots as in all places. Even the massive (50 plus riders) groups who take up the road like a critical mass event tend to be friendly, even it the car drivers don’t like it too much!

    As long as I can sneak past them of course, bugger being stuck on the back of that lot!

    There is alot of money spent on bikes here too, but all the gear is not a precursor to an idiot in my experience, just wish I could afford to keep up with that level of disposable income.

    Week days there are so few commuters, we have to stick together!

    #672897
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    Super Domestique

    Interesting comments on
    Interesting comments on weekday v weekend cyclists. Friday was a holiday which means weekenders out rather than the ones I spot in the week. The week day riders have been friendly by comparison. Normally I ride during the week leaving time with the kids at the weekend.

    #672895
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    kafylou

    I’m so relieved to read these
    I’m so relieved to read these comments, I thought it was just me. Ive been cycling on and off for 20+ years but I have certainly noticed it more on this come back. Ive put it down to i’m a women, tubby and not quite conquered clipless yet,but obviously i’ve been too harsh on myself.I wave and smile to all cyclists geared up, roadie and the odd mountain biker on the way to the woods. If i dont get a response (I dont expect one on a busy road or on a steep hill climb) I now just snigger to myself as I almost feel that me being there has p**** them off. As i qouted on facebook recently “to the 5 people who ignored me this morning, don’t panic I don’t want to be your best mate I’m just acknowledging we’re doing the same thing” I also think its a weekend thing as midweek cyclists are a lot friendlier.

    #672893
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    giff77

    The other day I passed a
    The other day I passed a fellah from another club. Smiled, said hi and as I pulled in he was on my wheel. Levelled up after a mile or so and spent a good chunk of the ride chatting before peeling off to finish our own loops. Made a pleasant day much more enjoyable.

    #672891
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    colhum1

    Being friendly and saying
    Being friendly and saying hello isn’t hard :H
    Just blooming difficult when you’re out on your ‘cycle to work’ bike..
    unfit and trying to breathe šŸ˜‰

    #672889
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    Simon_MacMichael

    Not sure about the urban vs
    Not sure about the urban vs country thing. I live in a small town in the Cotswolds – three minutes or so in any direction and I’m out in open country – and I reckon one in two riders returns a wave. Vast majority I see out here are on road bikes, BTW.

    #672887
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    ragtag

    I notice a difference between
    I notice a difference between the weekend and weekdays. Weekday folk tend to be much more friendly, less so at the weekend. Living near Box Hill it does get a bit busier at the weekend for sure but I still manage to nod.

    I guess though some people aren’t used to it being new or have experienced the blank so often they don’t bother.

    Still, glad it’s not just me šŸ™‚

    #672885
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    notfastenough

    @IOM Paddy – don’t mean Rapha
    @IOM Paddy – don’t mean Rapha gear do you? šŸ™‚ kinda know what you mean, although while out in a Rapha top on Thursday i was overtaken by a fast lad in full Rapha racing kit on a black Condor – we both said hello. I’m inclined to think he was a pro or at least supported by RCS in some way.

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    Philx

    I think it’s a density issue
    I think it’s a density issue sometimes. Little towns or places where you don’t see many other riders, you get a friendly response nearly all of the time. Places like Regents Park in London you’d get a pretty sore throat if you said hi to everyone you met training there.

    Touring cyclists are usually brilliant; In 8 months of riding towards Oz I think we stopped for a full blown chat with every other pannier laden person we met.

    One of the things we’re aiming to do this year is get more touring in.

    That’s good to hear – let me know if you need a guest reviewer šŸ˜‰

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    zzgavin

    On the Essex roads it’s
    On the Essex roads it’s mostly a wave and a nod, sometimes even a hello, sometimes a blank look. I make a point of saying hello to horse riders and going slowly, I always get a polite reply.

    On a haywards heath sportive last weekend it was a mixed crowd, I needed to stop very early and sort out a loose bottle cage I’d fiddled with trying to sort out a creak. So I was passed by hundreds, then got back on and passed most of them again, especially on the stiff early hill. Most hellos were responded to, I like to think it is part of what makes cycling fun

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    IOM Paddy

    I always try and wave or say
    I always try and wave or say hello. I have commented to freinds before that people clad in a certain expensive brand of gear are v grumpy.

    I now understand why I am looked down on when I am on a a straight bar bike. I laugh as I have two drop bars.

    If for any reason I don’t wave or say hello it’s due to the pain I am in – sorry.

    #672877
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    Raleigh

    Some drivers are pretty
    Some drivers are pretty ignorant too.

    I don’t wave to them. šŸ™

    #672875
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    russyparkin

    come to devon, 95% wave apart
    come to devon, 95% wave apart from the singlespeed/fixie crowd. they are the ignorant part of cycling society.

    #672873
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    Raleigh

    I apologise if I sound rude,
    I apologise if I sound rude,

    YOU’VE CHANGED ME!

    I’m going to wave at every Tom, Dick and Harry (Jane, Beth and Sally) tomorrow, whatever bike they’re on.

    Well done guys! šŸ˜€ šŸ˜€

    NB, its actually peer pressure, but it appeals to my better nature, obvs.

    #672871
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    Super Domestique

    Really pleased to hear most
    Really pleased to hear most here are of the friendly variety.

    If any miserable riders read this then they will know who I mean if they spot my username on my top tube.

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