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  • May 20, 2013 at 8:13 am #18841
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    How do you do it when you are wronged by a motorist e.g. close pass, left hook, general crappy driving?
    I used to gesticulate a lot but you only end up winding yourself up even more and can put yourself in more danger drifting over the road while waving your arms about.
    Not to mention you get the odd nutter who will stop; fighting in lycra with cleats and a ton of miles in the legs isn’t a good idea.
    I tend to mumble or if it’s really dangerous shout knowing full well no one can hear. I think the more it happens the less it bothers you which isn’t a great way of viewing bad driving.

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  • May 23, 2013 at 9:56 pm #737057
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    Tour Le Tour

    I am following the Giro
    I am following the Giro around Italy right now. For the past two weeks I have been amazed by how good Italian drivers are. Chaotic, yes, and with a total disregard for the law, but with hardly any agro at all. Then last night as I rode the ITT course I was actually knocked off my bike. You can read the full details in my blog at http://www.tourletour.com/Giro2013WP/of-all-the-days-to-not-have-the-video-running/ , but basically I am still impressed by Italian drivers, and suspect he was a visitor.

    When there really is agro though, I just wave. Not going to help getting worked up about it.

    May 23, 2013 at 8:23 pm #737055
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    themartincox

    wave or slow hand clap,
    wave or slow hand clap, coupled with knocking on the window if i then catch them at the lights

    May 23, 2013 at 12:06 pm #737053
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    darrellthfc

    gonna put that in my Armour,
    gonna put that in my Armour, B-)

    May 22, 2013 at 2:18 pm #737051
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    darrellthfc

    I made mistake, after nearly
    I made mistake, after nearly being knocked off by one car, then the second coming even closer, and in order to avoid ending up off the road i genstured using my foot to get away. this in turn made the driver uncontrollably angry, leaning out of his drivers door while driving shouting at me telling me he was going to f’ing kill me! then nearly knocked me off again stopped his car at an angle across the road to block my path. then hurtled towards me standing over my front wheel arms raised telling me is was this and that (cannot swear on this forum i guess!) and i could have damaged his car. he was so aggresive my partner called the police as he was completely out of control! The police arrived about 7 mins later, he had calmed down knowing the police were on their way. The police turned up talked to him and another driver who had also cut me up before this maniac! while the female officer was talking about our bikes and she was ding London to Brighton this year all very calming. The Male officer came over did not even get my side of what had happened (even though we had called them in fear of of this crazy lunatic!) and actually said he was coming over to have a word with me making out i was in the wrong!! the driver walked past us before the officer had even finished talking to us. he had made his mind up before even talking to me about his public order offence and dangerous driving offences which they were!! the policeman actually came over and said he was gonna have a word with me! i was the one that called them in fear of this muppet in charge of a car! i have made an official complaint ot the police as i have not had my side heard and they think it is case closed saying it is a road rage offence and that i could have been arrested!

    May 21, 2013 at 2:55 pm #737049
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    giff77

    The track stare is
    The track stare is particularly effective when combined with a track stand at the lights. The go on I dare you to…

    May 21, 2013 at 2:39 pm #737047
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    gw

    blow a kiss if they are
    blow a kiss if they are really worked up, they don’t know how to respond to that!

    On the whole I have now changed most of my commute to quiter roads. Now doing 19 miles each way instead of 15, and feeling a lot more relaxed for it.

    May 21, 2013 at 11:27 am #737045
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    pdows47

    Track stares and head shakes,
    Track stares and head shakes, as well as a ‘what are you doing shrug’ usually work for me. On the odd time they speak to me, I mention the rules of the highway code, being polite is the best way, if they expect confrontation and don’t get it they generally get confused and drive off.

    May 21, 2013 at 11:15 am #737043
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    giff77

    The other week I had a taxi
    The other week I had a taxi driver block the cycle lane at a set of lights on me so I went up his outside. He then started yelling at me telling me I should be in the cycle lane. My continued silence caused him to rant and foam at the mouth even more. By this stage the lights were in green phase and in my best patronising voice I told him to drive on whilst pointing at the lights. He went bright red, muttered some obscenity and took off.

    May 21, 2013 at 10:19 am #737041
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    Steveal

    This is a topic I’ve been
    This is a topic I’ve been giving increasing thought to due to a burk who always hurls abuse at me when he passes me, or more accurately his mate in the passenger seat. I’ve come to think that this could easily get out of hand and its me who is at most risk. In the same way that there is always someone faster than you (unless you are the Manx missile), there is always gonna be someone harder or more psychotic than you. One day last week I was already wound up after nearly being knocked off, then 5 miles later being blasted by a scroat with a huge water pistol, when the above Burk passed me again on my return commute. When I caught him at the traffic lights I gave a dirty look, and sure enough when he passed me again later he hurled out even more abuse. With every passing week of this it runs the risk off getting out of hand.

    May 20, 2013 at 5:30 pm #737039
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    Cycle_Jim

    If you meet them at traffic
    If you meet them at traffic lights, motion to roll down window and ask how there day is, where they are heading, if they are having a pleasant journey. Grin at them, and laugh at everything they say. Sets em right on edge…

    If I get a close pass I usually stick my arm out.
    Sometimes I shake my head.
    I swore once or twice but then I realised that it looks generally bad on all cyclists, yes there is a bad driver there but people forget him but will remember your reactions/actions.
    I had a guy swerve at me once pulling in front of me and then have an arguement about road positioning, just asked if he’d like to call the police to discuss it properly. 4×4 driving wanker soon moved on.

    May 20, 2013 at 4:14 pm #737037
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    giff77

    Problem is there is too many
    Problem is there is too many motorists out there with anger issues to risk swearing at or whatever. As was proven in several posts recently. I usually resort to a didainful shake of the head though if they didn’t see me they are highly unlikely to see me in the rear view mirror. Then indulge in a few sprints to shift the anger. On a very rare occasion has the motorist responded positively to my shout in the paSt.
    Another tactic I employ is when entering a traffic calming obstacle I drift into the middle and drop my outside arm to a 45* angle and waggle my fingure in a disproving manner if the vehicle behind is trying to squeeze through. The track stare is equally useful and intimidating. Especially when wearing mirrored lenses. A bit like arnie in the terminator

    May 20, 2013 at 2:53 pm #737035
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    pirnie

    If someone is aggressive
    If someone is aggressive towards me, honking etc, I tend to smile and wave. Meeting aggression with aggression isn’t the best way to go. It’s always amusing if you can get a whole group ride grinning and waving at a driver that’s a bit pissed off with you! If I’m feeling brave I sometimes make the call me sign :-C just to leave them a bit confused

    May 20, 2013 at 2:40 pm #737033
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    adamtaylor

    I usually give them the
    I usually give them the shaking head of despair at their driving and hope they feel shamed (if they even notice).

    If I get honked/shouted at I often swear back although I try to maintain my calmness and wave.

    May 20, 2013 at 1:07 pm #737031
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    Shanefutcher

    I offer them a fight and they
    I offer them a fight and they usually drive off but some have stopped and felt my anger

    May 20, 2013 at 12:43 pm #737029
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    andycoventry

    Slightly off topic I know but
    Slightly off topic I know but I had a white van man squirt me with water (well I hope it was water), the debt was repaid a couple of miles later when the same van got stuck in heavy traffic – half a bottle of sticky blackcurrant carb solution redressed the balance.

    I don’t condone retribution, its not wise I know and I should have reported it to the Police – but in this instance my response seemed proportionate.

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